The Sweet Spot.
April 30, 2009

We’re all on the lookout for them. Names that somehow defy popularity, aren’t moving up in the charts, and haven’t been usurped by a celebrity. Names that have a nice balance between simplicity and complexity, sound modern but timeless, and are easy to say and spell. Names that aren’t trying too hard, but don’t bore you to tears. Names that even the grandparents can tolerate. For girls, we’d like them to be feminine but strong, for boys, masculine yet kind. Here’s a list of relatively off the radar names that come recommended by YCCII for 2009– all with great meanings to boot:
LADIES
Adele- Germanic, “noble” and underused.
Aster- Greek, “star.” a flower, a form of Hebrew Esther with a modern sound; Pop culture: Rita’s daughter in “Dexter.”
Blythe- Old English, “cheerful.” Gwyneth Paltrow’s mother Blythe Danner is one famous bearer who began a litany of unusual names in their family.
Bronwen- Welsh, “fair breasted”, or pure of heart. This gets a lot of attention on the name boards but remains unusual in the big picture.
Celeste- Latin origin, “heavenly.” Queen Celeste reigns in the Babar books.
Coralie- French, “coral.” Somewhere between Cora and the newly famous Coraline, this one has potential to be a crowd pleaser.
Frances- English from Francis, “Frenchman” or “free.” Courtney Love broke with her own image when she and Kurt Cobain named their baby Frances Bean.
Iris- Greek goddess of the rainbow. Jude Law and Judd Apatow both have one. What fun for a young girl to have both a flower and a rainbow to celebrate her name.
Louisa- “Prepared for battle”; appears in both Jane Austen’s Persuasion, and is the author of Little Women Louisa May Alcott. All the beauty of Sophia and Olivia, without the searing popularity.
Margot-French short form of Margaret, “pearl.” Alluring woman in charge.
Mira- Triple threat: Slavic, “peace”, Sanskrit, “sea”, and Latin, “admirable”; Actress Mira Sorvino has faded from view so your daughter would have no trouble owning this name.
Naomi- Hebrew, “pleasant”, Japanese “honest + beautiful.” Cross cultural appeal far surmounts any quibble that may come from spelling this name backwards. Don’t be silly. If it does bother you, try Noemi.
Petra- Greek, “rock.” This will surprise people– pleasantly, I would think.
Phoebe- Greek, “bright, pure.” Shakesperean, Biblical, and Mythological. Cool.
Susannah- Hebrew, “lily.” Ladylike and lovely from childhood on.
Verity- From the Latin veritas, “truth.” Appellation Mountain picked this as her alias for good reason.
GENTS
Callum- Scottish, from Latin Columba for “dove.” While people are discovering this, it’s still far from popular. The nickname Cal just might help to sell Dad.
Conrad- German, “bold counsel.” Time for Conrad to shed his geeky image. Conrad is strong and commanding, and maybe even too cool for school.
Desmond- Irish, “from South Munster.” One of many delectables brought to America’s attention on LOST. I hope to have the pleasure of meeting a few.
Edward- Old English, “rich guard.” Will easily weather the storm that is Twilight. A tried and true classic. Try Ned, Ted, and Teddy before you stop at Ed.
Everett- English, from the Germanic Everard, meaning “brave boar.” Handsome choice that people seem to forget about.
Hugh- German, “intellect.” A personal favorite. Hugo is a top of the charts in France.
Jonah- Hebrew, “dove.” Are Callum and Jonah too incongruous to work for twins? No, it’s not Jonas, but we like that too. The brothers will be soon forgotten.
Lachlan- Scottish nickname for a person from Norway, “land of lochs.” Australia is gaga over Lachlan. A sign it could make the journey here.
Leo- Latin origin, “lion.” Such an international choice.
Malcolm- Scottish, “disciple of St. Columba.” It’s time to make way for new associations from Malcolm X and “Malcolm in the Middle.”
Philip- Greek origin, “horse lover.” Try this name in full, with one L, and you’ve got a winner.
Raphael- Hebrew, “God has healed.” Another name that works in so many languages. Rafael is another bonafide spelling.
Reid- English, may mean “red-haired” or “forest clearing.” This child could be preppy, a hippie baby, or just hip.
Seth- Hebrew, “appointed.” Handsome and understated.
Tobias- Hebrew, “God is good.” Germans are liking Tobias these days and so am I.
Wesley- English, “west meadow.” Straddles Western cowboy and tea-sipping gentleman.
Where does your sweet spot lie?
Saints April 5-26
April 28, 2009

Casilda. Macaria. Brychan. Ruadan.
This list is full of new discoveries for me, and I hope for you as well. If you find “this week’s” saints’ post to be a little long, it is because I’ve been a bad girl and have not kept to my Sunday ritual of posting. Sometimes they overwhelm, but I promise to keep being diligent and bang these puppies out as often as I can!
Any you would use?
April 6
Brychan- Welsh, “speckled.” King of Wales, notable for having 24 children, all of whom were saints. Visually, he’s connected to popular choices like Bradon and Bryson. Yet this is a venerable old classic that hasn’t gotten much attention. With this name, your son would fit right in, and have a long history of which to be proud.
April 7
Finnian / Finan- Old Irish, “white.” 6th century disciple of St. Brendan, he founded a monastery in Kinitty, Offaly, Ireland. Finan is yet another one of many innumerable ways to get to the newly hot Finn.
April 8
Januarius, Maxima, and Macaria- African martyrs killed together by Romans. Maxima- Latin, “greatest.” Macaria- Greek, “blessed, happy.” Macaria has great potential, while Maxima’s meaning might be too much. It’s working for the Dutch princess though. January might be more portable than Januarius, and could be worn on a boy or a girl. A girl is going to have an easier time of it though.
April 9
Casilda- Latin “dwelling place.” 11th century hermitess from Toledo, Spain. Gorgeous, no?
April 10
Apollonius- Greek, derived from Apollo, god of sun, medicine, music, and poetry. Egyptian martyr persecuted by Emperor Diocletian for being a Christian. He and his convert, Philemon, were sewn shut into sacks and thrown into the sea to drown. Apollonius is a lot to carry on a modern child. Sneak this one in the middle or choose one of its derivations.
April 11
Gemma- Latin, “Precious stone.” Gemma Galgani lived most of her life very ill. She had many visions and a passionate spiritual life, but her health prevented her from being admitted to a nunnery. She received the stigmata several times, and died in 1903. The Gemma love has yet to take over this country. Be one of the first to choose it for your precious jewel.
April 12
Vissia- Ancient Roman. Virgin and martyr persecuted under Emperor Trajan in Italy. Vissia’s a snazzy choice for a young lady or a fictional character. It’s got style, spice, and a bit of bite.
April 13
Caradoc- Welsh, “beloved.” Never formally canonized, but believed to be celebrated as a saint from the thirteenth century onward. Welsh harpist who played for Prince Rhys in South Wales. He is buried at St. David’s Cathedral, and his remains were long believed to be those of St. David. The prefix here leans feminine in modern times, but Caradoc may have its day.
April 14
Lydwine- Scandinavian, “people’s friend.” Dutch patron saint of the sick, she suffered multiple illnesses throughout her life. Accompanying the illnesses were visions of heaven and hell which she believed were sent from God. Could be quite lovely. Try also Lydwina.
April 15
Ruadan- Gaelic, “red-haired.” A disciple of St. Finian, he was one of the twelve apostles of Ireland. He established the monastery of Lothra in Tipperary. Kind of yummy, no?
April 16
Bernadette- French, Old German, “brave bear.” During her life, she received many visions from the Virgin Mary herself. The Holy Mother told her to dig a spring in Lourdes, France, where people migrate for its healing miracles. Wonder if Bernadette made Madge’s short list?
April 17
Elias- Greek and Hebrew, “the lord is my god.” A Spanish ninth century priest from Cordoba who was martyred alongside St. Paolo and St. Isidro, patron of Madrid. You say “eh-LIE-us”, and I say “eh-LEE-us.” This has been a friend’s experience with the name, but I would love to see it used a *bit* more.
April 18
Agia- Benedictine woman who made the decision with her husband, St. Hidulphus, to part ways and join in the service of God. She became a nun, he a monk. Almost reminiscent of the Aegean sea.
April 19
Timon- Greek, “respect.” One of the Seven Deacons mentioned in the Bible who helped the Nazarenes in first century Jerusalem. Proximity to Simon and Timothy aside, I’m liking this one. ”Tee-MOHN.”
April 20
Agnese- Greek, “chaste.” An extremely important Tuscan saint, particularly in Montepulciano. She entered a convent at age 9, and became head of another at 15. She had multiple visions which included holding baby Jesus in her hands, and receiving communion from an angel. Pronounced “ahn-YAY-zay” more or less, try to think of this one as gorgeous rather than fugly. Not convinced yet? You need to hear an Italian say it.
April 21
Maximian- Latin, “greatest.” Patriarch or Constantinople and friend of Pope Celestine I. We haven’t maxed out of Max names just yet. If Maximilian’s too poncey but Maxwell feels to homey, give this a shot.
April 22
Leonides- Greek, “lion.” Scholar from Alexandria who was beheaded under the rule of Septimus Severus in the year 202. His life is recorded by Eusebius. Cool Leo names may be in short supply. While Leo works beautifully on his own, Leonides gives this up-and-comer an ancient vibe.
April 23
George- Greek, “farmer.” Behind the dragon fable is a soldier who took on his leader, Emperor Diocletian, for being so merciless to Christians. George was then tortured and eventually executed, but his bravery remains an inspiration for anyone facing adversity. Poor George. Gets such a bad rap these days, but I argue this is an eternal classic and you will be ahead of the curve!
April 24
Sabas- Roman martyr persecuted under Emporer Aurelian. Also known as Sabas the Goth. Sabas feels as if it could go unisex. While I don’t necessarily advocate it, this one could be easily worn on a girl as well as a boy.
April 25
Mella- Eighth century abbess and widow from Connaught, Ireland. Her children, Cannech and Tigernach, were also saints. Ostensibly easy to pronounce and to spell. A worthy competitor for Ella and Bella.
April 26
Alda- Old German, “old, prosperous.” One of the patron saints of Siena, Italy who chose to live an ascetic life, give everything to the poor and administer to the sick. She was known for her visions. Also known as Aldobrandesca. Always on the search for fresh names that end in A, Alda suits today’s naming climate perfectly.
Cletus- Greek, “called forth, invoked.” Third bishop of Rome and one of St. Peter’s early disciples. He is buried in the Vatican next to St. Linus. Come on. What’s more likely to cause a stir than Cletus? Recommended for urban kids only.

St. Casilda, 1630–35 Francisco de Zurbarán; Bernadette Soubirous
More Locals
April 24, 2009

Lots of luscious picks this week from the local playground et al.
Enjoy!
GIRLS
Agnes (& Oscar)
Annabel
Ava (x2) (& Kyra, Coleman)
Ayla
Ceres
Clementine
Georgina
Kyra (& Ava, Coleman)
Mackenzie
Magdalena
Maya
Nadya*
Veronica*
BOYS
Aaron
Asa
Asher (& Eli)
Blake
Charlie
Coleman (& Kyra, Ava)
Dalí
Eli (x2) (& Asher)
Felix
Elias
Isaiah
Julian
Leif
Magnus
Oscar (& Agnes)
Otto
Xander (& Zeke)
Zeke (& Xander)
Above: Playground Love by Boy Vert
Names for Earth Day
April 22, 2009

Milkvetch. Wallflower. Toothwart.
Yes, the Earth is indeed a wellspring for baby names.
Actually I skipped those. Here are a few favorites culled– believe it or not– from endangered species lists. Morbid as that may seem, I promise they’re quite nice! Famous conservationists and a few other notables help bring it back down to Earth. I’d love to see Audubon or Fossey as firsts or to meet an all-American infant Sigurd.
Truly though, the names are of minor importance. Gasp! The most we can hope for is that our children do better than we did.
NOTE: This post is simultatneously appearing at Linda Rosenkrantz and Pamela Redmond Satran’s wonderful nameberry.com, where I am a guest blogger. If you haven’t done so already, please enter their contest to guess the top 10 names for boys and girls for 2008. Be the first to guess correctly and you could win four amazing books including and advanced copy of their brand spanking new Beyond Ava and Aiden: The Enlightened Guide to Naming Your Baby. Think the 2008 changed radically?
FAMOUS CONSERVATIONISTS
John James Audubon
Rachel Carson
Jeff Corwin
Jacques Cousteau
Dian Fossey
Buckminster Fuller
Jane Goodall
Julia Butterfly Hill
Steve Irwin
Aldo Leopold
Chico Mendes
John Muir
Frederick Law Olmstead
Sigurd F. Olson
Peter Simon Pallas
Henry David Thoreau
EMBLEMS OF THE EARTH
GIRLS
Anona- Roman goddess of the harvest
Avani- Sanskrit, “earth”
Ceres- Ancient Roman, “to grow”, Roman goddess of agriculture
Demeter- Greek, “earth mother”, Greek goddess of agriculture
Flora- Roman goddess of flowers
Francis- Italian saint reknowned for his connection to animals
Gaia- Greek, “earth”, and the goddess of the earth
Georgia, Georgina, Georgianna- Greek, “farmer”
Kun- Chinese, “earth”
Luna- Roman goddess of the moon
Perpetua- Latin, “continuous”
Terra- Latin, “earth”
Zoe- Greek, “life”
BOYS
Adam- Hebrew, debated meaning; man formed from the Earth
Asa- Hebrew, “healer”
Chayim- Hebrew, “life”
Enki- Sumerian, “lord of the earth”, god of water and wisdom
George- Greek, “farmer, earthworker”
Pax- Latin, “peace”
Vitus- Ancient Roman, from the latin for “life”
Zephyr- Greek god of the west wind
ANIMAL
Akialoa
Bear
Bison
Caribou
Cheetah
Condor
Cougar
Crane
Delphine
Eagle
Eider
Gazelle
Lynx
Nightingale
Ocelot
Peregrine
Rhea
Warbler
Wolf
VEGETABLE
Anemone
Aster
Azalea
Birch
Buttercup
Cicely
Clover
Columbine
Crocus
Cypress
Elm
Fern
Huckleberry
Hyssop
Indigo
Juniper
Maple
Oak
Phlox
Plum
Primrose
Rosemary
Rosette
Sage
Sedge
Snowdrop
Sundrop
Sorrel
Spruce
Thistle
Verbena
Willow
Yarrow
MINERAL
Bay
Earth, Eartha
Jasper
Marina
Obsidian
Ocean, Oceane
Onyx
Peter, Petra
Ridge
Slate
Solstice
Stone
…and finally Montana… much to the chagrin of Pam and Linda I’m sure.
Above: Oil on paper painting by Elisabeth Wilborn (that’s me). ;-)
Saints March 22-April 5
April 6, 2009

Modern sounding 8 and 10 point letters come tidily packaged in venerable saints’ names this week: Zeno, Octavian, Felix all imminently usable. For an edgy hip choice for your little girl, why not Musa or Agape? (Three syllable pronunciation on that last one, please). A lot of other gems here too– take liberties with your child’s name! As long as it’s spelled correctly, please.
March 22
Lea- From the Hebrew Leah, which may mean “weary.” A fourth century widow who traded her wealth for a life of piety and austerity and became the superior of a Roman monastery. St. Jerome expressed concern in a letter to St. Marcella that she be rightly remembered and praised.
Octavian- Latin, “eighth.” Fifth century archdeacon from Carthage, executed by Vandals.
March 23
Felix- Latin, “happy.” An African saint martyred with twenty companions when persecuted by Vandals.
March 24
Aldemar- Old High German, “noble” + “famous.” A favorite of an Italian regional Princess Aloara, St. Benedict was called upon often to help her when he was reassigned to a monastery in Monte Cassino. The Princess was very angry, and tried to have him killed. He had to flee to Abruzzi, where he founded several religious institutions.
March 25
Lucia, Lucy- From the Latin, lux, “light.” A native of Tuscany, she founded the childrens’ school the Insitute the Maestre Pie, or Filippine, which are widespread in Italy today.
March 26
Margaret- Originally from the Greek, “pearl.” Margaret Clitherow was born a Protestant in mid-16th century England. She married into a Catholic family, and converted. She became so devout that she harbored fugitive priests in her home. For this she was imprisoned and in typical Medieval fashion, pressed to death.
March 27
Augusta- Latin, “great.” Fifth century noblewoman, the daughter of the Duke of Friuli, Italy. She insisted on not marrying and remaining a virgin, and it is said that this so angered her father that he killed her himself with bare hands.
Rupert- Germaic, “fame” + “bright.” Once sitting pretty as the Bishop of Worms, Germany, he took it upon himself to become a missionary. He and his sister Eerentrudis built a church and abbey in what is now Salzburg, Austria, and is now the Apostle of Bavaria and Austria.
March 28
Conon- Basilian Abbot at a Greek Monastery in Sicily.
March 29
Berthold- German, “bright” + “ruler.” He and his brother Aymeric went on the Crusades together. At Mount Carmel they discovered a group of hermits, and there founded the Carmelite Order.
March 30
Zosimus- Greek, “viable.” Seventh century Bishop of Syracuse, known for giving alms to the poor and attention on education.
March 31
Benjamin- Hebrew, “son of the right hand.” Persian martyr imprisoned under Abdas. He was eventually released with the agreement that he wouldn’t continue to preach Christianity. An agreement he could not comply with, he was apprehended again and tortured with reeds inserted and removed from beneath his fingernails.
April 1
Hugh- From the Germanic hug, “heart, mind, spirit.” Benedictine Bishop of Grenoble, he is also the patron of St. Bruno, who founded the Carthusian Order at the Grande Chartreuse.
Theodora- Greek, “gift of God.” Administered to her brother St. Hermes while he was in prison. Not to be confused with the Empress.
April 2
Musa- A child mystic from Rome, whose visions were recorded by St. Gregory.
April 3
Agape- Greek, “love.” She and her Macedonian sisters, Irene and Chionia, were sentenced to death when found to be in possession of scripture– a direct defiance of Emporer Diocletian at the time.
April 4
Benedict- Latin, “blessed.” Patron saint of African-Americans, this slave was set free and became a devout hermit and later reknowned convent chef in Italy.
Isidore- Greek, “gift of Isis.” Also known as Isidro, Bishop of Seville, Spain in the 600s. He fostered learning and enlightenment in an otherwise dark era.
April 5
Zeno- Greek, possibly related to the Indo-European word for “shine” or “sky”, and related to Zeus. Third century Bishop of Verona whose story is vague, though is mentioned in the writings of both St. Gregory and St. Ambrose. Also the name of two prominent Greek philosophers, Zeno of Elea and Zeno of Citium, founder of the Stoic School.
Francesco del Cossa, Portrait of St. Lucy,, 1470
Petal Blossom Rainbow Oliver.
April 3, 2009

She’s here! The third jubilantly named daughter for chef Jamie Oliver and his wife Jools, Petal Blossom Rainbow Oliver made her debut early this morning in London. She joins big sisters Poppy Honey and Daisy Boo.
Petal and Blossom seem redundant to me, both mirroring each other and the sisters, but I like the flow together. Would have skipped Rainbow– takes an over-the-top name with some charm into Fifi Trixibelle territory.
HOW did I miss this one on Complete the Celebrity Sibset you ask? No idea, because I’ve been anticipating this. So I ask now, what would you have named her? I have a penchant for Primrose, Marigold, and Lavender– though not together in one name. What about:
Primrose Ottilia
Marigold Charm
Lavender Lucy
Local Hellions
April 2, 2009

OK. So I’m running out of ideas to title these posts. They’re really very sweet. ;-)
This week’s revelations for me were two Raf/phaels, and a female Toulouse. She’s too adorable, but I really think this is one that needs to stay on the boys!
GIRLS
Ada (my third in less than a year)
Anna
Avery (NYC’s favorite ambi name)
Aurora
Becca
Bella
Charlotte* (& Emily)
Delia
Dylan (NYC’s second favorite ambi name amongst the not-quite-cognoscenti)
Emily “Mimi” (& Charlotte)
Georgia
Gracie
Orla (& Cormac)
Rio
Sophie
Tessa
Toulouse
Vivi
BOYS
Ari
Beckett
Cormac (& Orla)
Eli
Emmett
Harrison
Khalil
Lincoln
Milo
Oliver
Rafael
Raphael
Stephen
Image above by Eloise Wilkin.
